
That's a huge question to ask. But I have an answer.
Life is about participation. It's about being involved. It's about going out on a limb and forging new paths, trying new things, going to new places. It doesn't take money to really live - it simply takes initiative.
My favorite quote is this: "I warmed both hands before the fire of life; It sinks, and I am ready to depart." - Walter Savage Landor
I warmed my hands over the fires of life = I participated.
Think about how you are (or are not) taking advantage of your life - are you warming your hands over its fires? or just feeling the heat as a passerby?